I’ve realized an easy trick to avoid that awkward conversation where someone isn’t sure if Ruby is a girl or a boy (and uses vague pronouns until I clue them in). If Ruby is wearing a clip in her hair, I can put her in whatever outfit I want and everyone knows she’s a girl. Since we avoid frilly pink stuff like the plague, this makes life easier when we’re out and about.

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2 responses to “Gender identifier”
As long as it’s not one of those horrible elastic headband bows, all is right with the world.
Ew, heaven forbid!