{"id":173,"date":"2008-04-08T14:39:00","date_gmt":"2008-04-08T21:39:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.mynameisruby.com\/blog\/?p=173"},"modified":"2008-04-08T14:39:00","modified_gmt":"2008-04-08T21:39:00","slug":"friend-no-more","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.mynameisruby.com\/blog\/2008\/04\/friend-no-more\/","title":{"rendered":"&#8220;Friend&#8221; No More"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href='https:\/\/www.mynameisruby.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2008\/04\/2007-12-25-leroux-christmas-300.jpg' title='Ruby and \u201cFriend\u201d'><img src='https:\/\/www.mynameisruby.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2008\/04\/2007-12-25-leroux-christmas-300.thumbnail.jpg' align=\"right\" alt='Ruby and \u201cFriend\u201d' \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>For Christmas, we gave Ruby a doll.  We didn&#8217;t give the doll a name, but instead decided to wait and let Ruby choose the name.  <\/p>\n<p>Ruby didn&#8217;t quite understand what we were asking for when we said, &#8220;What&#8217;s your friend&#8217;s name?&#8221;.  She&#8217;d usually say &#8220;hmm?&#8221; or &#8220;name-o&#8221; (as in &#8220;bingo was his&#8221;).  So for the past few months her doll&#8217;s name has been &#8220;friend&#8221; or &#8220;your friend&#8221;.  Every few weeks we&#8217;d ask again and we&#8217;d get the same response.<\/p>\n<p>Last week while we were in Hawaii, the mother of one of our PEPS friends did some babysitting while Ruby and I went snorkeling.  She took Ruby to see a fire station and later, when we were all driving home, she asked Ruby if she remembered the name of the station.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Manoa!&#8221; was Ruby&#8217;s response.  She seemed to enjoy the word and repeated it a few times.<\/p>\n<p>Sensing an opportunity, I said, &#8220;Ruby, what&#8217;s your friend&#8217;s name?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Manoa!&#8221; she replied!<\/p>\n<p>We&#8217;ve asked a few more times since then, and the name has stuck.  I&#8217;m not sure why, but I get a little choked at the thought of her finally giving her friend her name.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>For Christmas, we gave Ruby a doll. We didn&#8217;t give the doll a name, but instead decided to wait and let Ruby choose the name. Ruby didn&#8217;t quite understand what we were asking for when we said, &#8220;What&#8217;s your friend&#8217;s name?&#8221;. She&#8217;d usually say &#8220;hmm?&#8221; or &#8220;name-o&#8221; (as in &#8220;bingo was his&#8221;). So for the [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[16,10],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-173","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-learning","category-milestones"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mynameisruby.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/173","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mynameisruby.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mynameisruby.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mynameisruby.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mynameisruby.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=173"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.mynameisruby.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/173\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mynameisruby.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=173"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mynameisruby.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=173"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mynameisruby.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=173"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}